A Date, A Dish and A Dining Lesson

Week one of our New Years resolution:   No social media on Friday and Saturday evenings for me and no ‘at home’ work for Pa-Bumpy (PB).  Worked well, except that driving in the car alone with PB was ‘BORING’.   He’s not a chatty person, tries hard but when he starts talking retirement and suggestions on where we can live when we are old you know we are at the end of the road! Conversation wise, not lifeline!  Car travel is where I love the freedom of tweeting with my tweep world.  Usually I’m in the bus doing all the driving, day in and day out so it’s a rare opportunity.  Sadly my itching fingers had to entwine themselves and play together for company while my mind screamed ‘tweet, tweet’.

No tweet

Saturday was a hot day so the kids wore themselves outside with water play on the slipNslide.  Thankfully our land is sloped so it’s not hard to slide, it is perhaps harder to stop!

We adults took up a date night, thanks to our awesome teens who willingly (honest!) stepped in as supervisors and  babysitters.  It’s been many years of not going out to reach this point where we can begin to enjoy some freedom.  Even then I ensure the little ones are mostly asleep before I leave.

Having seen a very yummy food pic fly across my instagram from Perth food blogger PerthMunchkin  who I trust, so when she says something is yummy I’m sitting closer to listen! This pic was from a relatively new Indian Cuisine restaurant.  VARQ Indian Cuisine which has been opened for six months on Cambridge Street, Wembley.  We were not disappointed.  The food was amazing, as was the price, always extra important when raising 8 kids.  Great evening, great food, great company, BORING drive home I really miss twitter (sorry PB).

Entree: Mixed platter

Entree: Mixed platter from Varq

 

Sunday came and I had shown PB another Perth food blog this time justagirlfromaamchimumbai.com  This one blogs her own dishes from India with great photo’s to tantalise the tastebuds.  PB set about making the Drunk Pork Curry, only we forgot the booze from the shop so the pork wasn’t drunk!   It tasted fantastic if not a little in need of being drunk, note to self to stock up on cooking booze!

Pork Curry being cooked up by PB.

Pork Curry being cooked up by PB.

Meanwhile the kids, yes the kids.  Mustn’t forget about the kids hey!   Having attended church earlier in the day, we dropped by the chinese grocery store to stock up on all things that a china man and his china kids might need to survive a week.  NOODLES!  Oh and not forgetting ingredients for the upcoming pork curry.   Next door just happens to be a Chinese restaurant ‘Mr Ho’s’ and me being me states “Hey I know, let’s have a spontaneous family lunch!” then I won’t have to go home and make lunch in this heat 

PB gives me a bemused stare, I re-assure him that the kids are older and we’ll never, ever know if we don’t ever, ever go!  (I should have been a politician).

So in we all go and what-do-ya-know there’s a table for 10 empty, set and ready.  They must have known from the fortune cookies that we were coming.   FYI, it was great.  Mr Toddy threw one hissy fit when I said NO to the sprite offered by the kind waitress, water is more than good enough for enthusiastic, energetic, wriggly kids!

Later that evening, after the kids had enjoyed a lunch outing, a long stint in the swimming pool and an early ‘movie’ session (in-home style) I decided it was a good time to begin some public outing training.  Begin is probably the wrong word because I throw this in every chance I get in every day life.  However, to really prepare a child to successfully join the family in bigger outings such as restaurants without the wild child behaviour often seen, training is required.  I’m aiming for the evening time restaurant visits, a little more up market than lunch.

On this occasion I made simple desserts because we don’t usually do desserts as a regular daily event.  A simple fruit salad and custard in a fancy serving glass (made of plastic).  The kids were excited, versed/taught and nagged about polite table manners and then let loose from the start gate.  All but one made me proud and it wasn’t Mr Toddy who failed!  At three years of age I would expect him to fumble.  Instead another totally lost all manners scooped up the bowl/glass and began to drink dessert.  ((SHOCK, HORROR)).  I feigned horrified surprise and acted like a stunned patron at a fancy restaurant.  The child saw their error and corrected themselves. Downright awesome!  Remember, I’m dealing with learning disabilities and damaged early years.  Not the regular, smooth functioning, age appropriate child.

Simply, elegant dessert.

Simply, elegant dessert.

 

So there you go, my weekend in one post!   Oh and I think we may have nailed plans for TJTeens birthday party.  Fingers crossed!

 

 

 

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  • http://www.redcliffestyle.com/ Rachel from Redcliffe Style

    Now I am craving Indian food. That looks awesome. Rachel xx

    • http://thebumpiestpath.com/ Jules

      oops sorry Rachel :-) it was roooooly nice. Not sure how eating goat curry goes with having a pet goat but I guess it’s similar to owning chickens!

  • http://www.thekidsareallright.com.au/ Rachel @ TheKidsAreAllRight

    I know what you mean about those car conversations! If my husband is driving, he happily listens to the cricket until it’s over then wants to talk, interrupting my social media time. So selfish :)

    • http://thebumpiestpath.com/ Jules

      Rachel I’m so glad I’m not alone in my rant :-) PS, I’m fast becoming addicted to Indian food I’m sure.

  • http://www.kyliepurtell.com/ Kylie Purtell

    That pork curry looks excellent, even if it wasn’t drunk! My husband is a shocker in the car, when I am driving he is firmly stuck on facebook or you tube, but if he is driving all he wants to do is talk and he gets annoyed at me if I am distracted by social media! Double standards of what!

    • http://thebumpiestpath.com/ Jules

      Definitely double standards Kylie. We talk a lot too, for an old married couple, so in the car there is pretty much nothing to ‘chat’ about.

  • http://twitter.com/LittleBentoBlog Yvette

    ooooo drunk pork curry sounds great!! Going to that restauant u recommended too!! We love a good indian meal!! :)

    Hubby talk is few and far between here too!

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